June 2013
7 posts
If you want to leave, I’m not begging you to stay.
Relationships aren’t all fun and games. Life happens and one of you will be bound to lose a loved one, have a sick family member, etc. Being a good partner means standing by through good times and bad. The good times are easy to handle. Here are some tips on how to be supportive through tough times:
1. Listen. Let them know right away that you’re there for them if and when they want to talk. When that time comes, free yourself from distractions and really let them vent by listening and giving them your full attention.
2. Acknowledge the situation. People often feel awkward or they don’t know what to say in times of crisis. Don’t pretend that nothing happened. Acknowledge the situation, say that you’re sorry for what they’re going through, or even admit that you don’t quite know what to say. Any of these are better than saying nothing.
3. Offer distraction. When they’re ready you can be there to take them out for pizza, go to a movie or anything else to get their mind off of things.
4. Offer to help. Can you help make any arrangements? Do any errands? Bring over takeout? Show that you care by offering to lighten their load.
May 2013
18 posts
Stop playing with my head and my emotions
Whether it’s the depth of the darkness you are carrying
Or the force of the wind striking your cheeks
There are undoubtedly things
That only you can understand
If you leave things in a mess,
Nothing can begin
If you don’t start,
You will not understand the pain of loss
I’m screaming out toward the future
Saying that now is not the time to give up
In order to love you,
I chose this battle.
You go out to greet a gentle morning
You pass the night unafraid
Without any fighting spirit
I want you tell me you are happy
*Living in a state of regret,
You will never come to terms with the past
If you cannot let go of the past,
At least smile for me now
I’m screaming out toward the future
Saying that now is the time to move forward
In order to love you,
I chose this battle.
In doing this, if I can support your success
Raise your voice
And raise your head, to charge forward without looking back
There is nothing to be afraid of
*If you leave things in a mess,
Nothing can begin
If you don’t start,
You will not understand the pain of loss
I’m screaming out toward the future
Saying that now not the time to give up
In order to love you,
I chose this battle.
Living in a state of regret,
You will never come to terms with the past
If you cannot let go of the past,
At least smile for me now
I’m screaming out toward the future
Saying that now is the time to move forward
In order to love you,
I chose this battle.
I will be the proof that you were here
I wonder if it even matters that I’m in your life
The way that you make me feel while she’s on the phone
I bet you wish that we would end
I bet you wish that we would end
It doesn’t matter anymore, I’m not begging you anymore to see me. Its either you see before you won’t see me at all. Doesn’t matter how busy your day is the one person should matter well enough for you to push your day back and see them as much as you would want to see them. I’m not asking anymore, nor I’m telling, ill let you do what you want till you finally realize what you have will soon be gone.
I don’t even care for today anymore
Eyelashes?
The closer they are in front of you, the less you can see them.” —King Flower (via nujanes)
April 2013
68 posts
We should get married
With some rings from a 99 cent machine
The cheapest wedding ever seen
It’s blatant that we don’t have a lot
Just each other is all we gotWe should get married
There’s no need to call a preacher
There’s nothing he could teach
Our vows we already know
Our love from…
Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true,…
Sweet love, sweet love,
whisper to me softly
tell me the secrets on your mind with your hands and your mouth
Teach me with your body, your every though and
Pepper heated kisses on every inch of my skin
And I will take you and hold you
And love you ‘till the end of days
And I will keep your heart within mine
As we lay together and become tangled up in rapture
Sweet love, sweet love, hold me close
To my soul, you are most dear.